
Look at the outlines below. I have distilled 2 basic patterns of control and given the essence that will be most helpful in transforming the pattern, bringing more flexibility and flow.

Outline NO 1
For feelings of :
Possessiveness, unable to relax and flow, broken hearted, stiffness, inflexibility, stress when one cannot control events.

Tends to shut down, need to control, accumulate possessions, emotional and physical stiffness, after bereavement, will not move on.
Statements:
I cannot let go, my heart aches, I feel I am spinning my wheels, I have to stay in control.

These feelings, patterns, behaviors and statements are some of the clues for people that may have issues around control.
I have encountered several people corresponding to this outline. It seems like they have a compulsive need to be in control, control others, and want perfection. It makes it quite unbearable for everyone around them, let alone themselves, since how can we control everything and when is perfection ever reached?

Essence of Choice: 7 – CIRCULATORY! 12 BODY SYNERGY NO 7

Our Circulatory Essence was created to help release and heal emotional and energetic patterns frequently associated with the circulatory system (heart, arteries and veins). The Circulatory essence helps us allow feelings and energy to flow, brings a soothing balm to the heart and helps us regain a sense of connectedness of self and spirit. Qualities of laughter and enjoyment are promoted.

Outline NO 2
For feelings of:
Being rigid, needing to be in control, over intellectuality.
Patterns and Behaviors:
Need to be seen as proper, difficulty giving and receiving, hardness, rigid, tends to be grumpy, unsmiling, tends to direct others, unable to let go.
Statements:
I feel stuck, I cannot please everyone, if not happy, too bad
These feelings patterns, behaviors and statements are some of the clues of a person that has difficulties just enjoying and flowing with the moment because of their need to control and overall rigidity.

Essence of Choice: PUSSY WILLOW!


Our single tree essence Pussy Willow puts us in touch with the natural rhythm and flow of life’s energy and the enjoyment of giving and receiving. This essence is of great benefit when we fell rigid and stuck, that we cannot melt and let go. One feels a softness and fluidity. The experience of the senses is enhanced, opening the door to pleasure and ecstasy.

Using the 7 – Circulatory and the Pussy Willow essences simultaneously will support anyone wishing to enjoy more fluidity, relaxation and joy in their life.
Namasté
Celine Cloutier (Gulabo)
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